According to Steve Harvey "Real men do what they have to do to care for a woman and if they do anything less than that, they are not a man." She goes further to say, "I know you and your girls have been told for years not to miss any opportunities when a man walks your way because he might be 'the one'." Women who have problems with aggression lose all power when it comes to knowing when you deserve better, women become skeptical about moving forward because they are afraid of losing the situation they are in. they are willing to take on a male's role in being the aggressor. Beyond the topic, the main goal of women asking men out is to learn that as women you are made to be chased, not to chase men. Women are intellectual and are fully aware of their intentions before putting their plans into action to catch the perfect prey. However, men are just as careful when it comes to the search for true love. Where there is nothing wrong with giving a man a preview of what he might have, in fact, the goal should be to leave a lasting first impression, so memorable that it makes him want to continue the courtship with him in the role of hunter. The presumption is that he will want to go out of his way to make you a permanent fixture in his life, especially since all your moral characteristics are safely intact. Setting boundaries early on will prove effective in the long run, hence the need to maintain traditional dating and childhood roles while providing mutual respect for each other's gender roles. Some say that dating and chivaria are now obsolete behaviors. Some believe we are in the age of "hookups" and "try it before you buy it" is the attitude of most who have emerged into the dating world. In both cases it is safe