Have you ever looked at someone and judged them by their appearance? Normally it's about how they look or how they are dressed. The way they wear is definitely something you would never wear. People who struggle to fit in don't want to be "that" person. So they try to create the appearance that would please the people who would judge them. For girls, this look is that of the skinny, tanned girl who wears all the designer clothes. For this reason, girls try to integrate by starving themselves to be excluded. They spend all the money they have on clothes they might not even like; but only wear it to try to fit in. A person's personality helps decide whether or not they think they will fit in. Many people don't accept a person if they don't think they have the right personality. Unfortunately, people are so desperate to fit in that they will try to change their personalities to be accepted. A girl may not participate in a certain activity knowing that the crowd she is trying to fit in with would never do so. Instead, he would do the activity that everyone else would do ...