Why kissing someone before learning their name is considered an achievement in college. I had my "Jeremy", the guy you never really dated but never really forgot. We met the first week of school and it seemed too good to be true and it was: he was in a fraternity. He was too strongly influenced by his "brothers" and he knew it. We tried to work it out, but in the end he thought a relationship required too much work and emotion for a situation that ends in pain, so he saved our feelings by ending it early. But in reality he only saved