My answer to this question is loved. I think guys just want to be loved by the people they hang out with on a regular basis. Especially when it comes to their significant other. I look at my older cousin's relationship and always pray for something like his. He and his wife are like best friends. Yes, sometimes they have problems, but that's true in any relationship. Life will always bring you some kind of adversity through which you will persevere. I simply watch as God transforms his Boys into great young men in his kingdom. If we take our focus off what kids want, God will show them everything they want