You should always, no matter which one (male or female) look at the person's personality first. A person's body is not who or what they are or what they are not. A person's personality is who or what they are. Most of the time you will find that an outgoing personality is much better than someone's body. Most people find that when they observe someone's personality and it is amazing, they are much happier. Looking deeper than the surface is what it's all about. When women saw advertisements on television where women were sexual objects, there were steps as to how they would act and feel. They would see themselves as weighing more than they actually are, then they would like to be thinner, then they would prefer to have a different woman's build (“Effects on body dissatisfaction”). This is the perfect example of why women should not be treated like objects because it ruins them