Danielle, the youngest, was able to play elf and hand out presents, as well as holiday headdresses for anyone who was interested. Grandpa Ray took his usual seat in the recliner. He held a garbage bag in his hand to clean up debris as it was produced. Once everyone had their flashlight, we went around in a circle. Cameras flashed and laughter filled the room. We each received a handmade quilt, along with the usual painted ceramic ornament, as a memento of the event. Along with lots of other junk. With the gift exchange concluded, everyone dispersed to sort through our loot. With the exception of my immediate family, who were expected at dawn for our Sunday best and to return to