Topic > Matching You with Your Mate - 1206

Is it really better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all? Some couples today make this statement seem like the ultimate truth and others make it questionable. Some seem to be perfect for each other, while others may make you wonder what they have in common. From a girl's perspective, there are many different types of boyfriends with different behaviors. Some choose the typical shy boy, others the time bomb, the lively friend twenty-four hours a day, the puppy on the way or even the sought-after soulmate. Just the thought that the next guy you meet might turn out to be the exact opposite of what you're looking for creates a risk that no girl seems to turn down. The boy sitting next to you in your summer English class seems to be your typical shy boy because he never has much to say. Imagine going out in a month with him and imagine what he would be like as a boyfriend. Now you not only spend time in the classroom, but you also dedicate and share everything you have to it. You find yourself waiting for the moment for him to come out of his shell, but it never seems to come. This shows that the shy guy never changes much over time, regardless of the relationship. There will always be an awkward moment of silence with him which could cause things in the relationship to get a little unstable. For example, when you both attend your company's annual picnic, he seems like an unsociable date who seems attached to your side because he never makes the effort to converse in either your conversation or his. For some people a shy guy isn't that bad, but for those who are looking for a long-lasting relationship, it's not recommended. Taking a step or two away from the shy guy brings you to the time bomb that some girls just can't get enough of. These are the guys that make it difficult for you to take them out because it's unpredictable when the bomb you're holding your hand with will explode. Luckily for these guys, some girls tolerate the nervousness that these easily irritable guys seem to possess.