As a result, males tend to be more passive towards emotions and have a mentality that pushes them to be bigger than everyone else, while females are more expressive and help l 'man to get more than them. Higher self-esteem and greater personal identity are some of the benefits of encouraging a non-gender-stereotyped environment. Third, our teachers and parents thought that the rules and expectations for men and women were very different. Being girls, we are considered "women" and set our sights lower than a man, while our parents and teachers think that boys are "strong" and have whoever or whatever they want. In this society, most girls want to become nurses, but not doctors. However, most kids want to become an entrepreneur, but not a kindergarten teacher. However, if a man wants to be a low-income man, he is considered low. In the article Working progress, Lata Murti explained her experience: “These staff and parents believe that men should not care for young children, especially newborns, in a nursery, and that any man who wants to do so is a pedophile . " However, if a woman wants to have a higher income, there will be other people against her, because she does not take care of her child or if the woman will ever have a family of her own. The effect is that a man who acts in scope of one's gender role is applauded, but a woman is forced to stay within a certain fence within her role. She must be feminine but not too much, sexual but not too much, and she must have a career but not if that means being a bad mother. Gender roles exist, they